Nothing is more destructive to a teen and/or their family than the use of drugs. Consequently, the earlier the intervention can be done, the better. The problem is that in most cases teens are using drugs for several months, or even years, before parents become aware of it. Even when parents do become aware of drug use, they often
underestimate the extent of their child’s involvement.
If you are suspicious your child may be using drugs, don’t ignore the warning signs. Children seldom grasp the concept of addiction. Most view themselves as impervious to peril. For some teens, the stress of adolescence and pressure from their peers is overwhelming, and drugs become an enticing escape from their real world.
- Neglected appearance/hygiene
- Poor self image
- Grades dropping
- Violent outbursts at home
- Frequent use of eye wash
- Unexplained weight drop
- Drug paraphernalia
- Slurred speech
- Curfew violations
- Running away
- Skin abrasions
- Chemical breath
- Glassy eyes
- Valuables missing
- Hostility towards family members
- Red eyes
- Stealing/Borrowing money
- Valuables suddenly appear in child’s possession
- Change in friends
- Depression
- Withdrawal
- Apathy
- Reckless Behavior
- No concern about future
- Defies Family Values
- Disrespectful to parents
- Lying/deceptive
- Sneaky behavior
- Disregards consequences
- Loss of interest in healthy activities
- Verbally abusive
- Manipulative/self-centered
- Lack of motivation
- Truancy
If any of these signs seem applicable to your child, and their behavior, there may be a destructive pattern developing that may require intervention. If several of these signs apply, intervention is probably necessary now. A response of denial or shame to drug abuse will only serve as additional obstacles to overcome. If intervention is indicated, there is effective help available. Teen Help can refer you to effective resources by calling 1-800-637-0701.
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